What happens after the kids grow up, careers settle down, and it's finally just the two of you again?
For Shari and Terry Doherty, the answer is simple: they're falling in love all over again.
In this conversation, they share what 31 years of marriage has taught them about friendship, forgiveness, conflict, parenting, and building a relationship that keeps getting better with time. They also talk about raising children who actually want to model their marriage, working together, handling disagreements without letting them define the relationship, and why they believe your best years can still be ahead.
If you've ever wondered whether marriage can stay fun after decades together, this episode will leave you hopeful.
What You'll Hear
- Why they believe life after 50 is their favorite season
- The importance of liking your spouse—not just loving them
- Their approach to conflict after three decades together
- Why friendship is the foundation of a lasting marriage
- The story behind their daughter's decision to share their anniversary
- Lessons they've passed on to their children about marriage
- How gratitude changes everyday relationships
- Looking ahead to retirement, travel, and becoming grandparents
Key Takeaways
- Great marriages continue growing.
- Friendship makes difficult seasons easier.
- Small annoyances shouldn't overshadow a lifetime of good.
- Appreciation should be spoken out loud.
- Conflict doesn't have to threaten connection.
- Healthy marriages are built through daily choices, not perfect moments.